Gastroparesis Strikes Back

The toughest part of my health issues is my gastroparesis. I haven’t talked about it a lot recently because…well…it hasn’t been much of a problem lately. I’ve been blessed for the last year and a half or two years to have a reprieve from my gastroparesis symptoms. My symptoms are much more mild than most, but it was still nice to have a break.

The hardest part about the symptoms returning is that I’ve done a little forgetting on the subject of listening to my body. It’s hard to pay attention. It’s hard to to do what I need to do. I don’t like carrying food with me everywhere, just in case. I don’t like it when I have to leave early from an event because my blood sugar’s dropping.

So it’s back to the grindstone. Figuring out how much fiber is enough, but not too much. Eating small meals frequently, but knowing about how much I need to feel full before I actually feel full. If I wait to stop eating until I feel full, I’ll be miserable. Always having snacks with me, just in case. Having some Throwback sodas with real sugar (instead of corn syrup in them, since I’m allergic to corn) around to help stabilize my blood sugar quickly while I figure out a meal.

Challenges come and go, and if it wasn’t this, it would be something else. Good luck with *your* challenges, and please let me know if I can help.

Identity Crisis, or “Real” Food vs. “Weird” Food

This last year has been crazy. I couldn’t have predicted this. At all.

February 2012: “My position was eliminated” after 3.5 years of hard work. We went up to Washington State for three weeks to see if being at sea level in a cloudy climate helps my husband’s migraines. Found out that it helps his head about 40%. It’s the largest difference we’ve found so far. We also put our house up on the market.

March 2012: Moved back to Utah to live with family. I thought this would last a few months, but we’re still here.

April 2012: I got a part-time job teaching English online to students (mostly children) in Spanish-speaking countries. I LOVE IT.

November 2012: My husband’s “position was eliminated.” We also got an offer on our house! We’re in the short sale process, so it’s taking a long time. It’s still going on. We’re hoping to close by the end of February 2013. My husband is looking hard for work, but nothing has worked out yet.

As I’m sure you can imagine, having my life turned upside down means that I really have to re-evaluate who I am and what my values are. It’s been a long and arduous process, and it’s not over yet! This blog has undergone some changes, too! It initially started out as a way for my extended family to understand my Celiac and food allergies, became an attempt to have a gluten-free wedding planning business, then to product reviews, then to….jam.

As I’ve been figuring myself out and what I want to do with this blog, I’ve realized that I no longer let my life revolve around gluten. I am still 100% gluten-free. As I was trying to build a business, though, I just became overwhelmed by the hard-core gluten-free and allergy folks.

3 1/2 years after diagnosis, I really don’t spend a lot of brain power on gluten-free. Seriously. After the hours it took to go grocery shopping the first couple of times, I never thought eating gluten-free would be intuitive, and yet — here I am. It’s so intuitive that I occasionally FORGET to tell servers at restaurants that I have to eat gluten-free. Crazy, right?

Then I thought about what I could do with this blog that those hard-core folks out there can’t provide. They are recipe-creating masters! They have every bit of advice that a newly-diagnosed Celiac or gluten intolerant person could ever dream of needing. They’re activists, always fighting the good fight against gluten and allergy ignorance. They’re writers. I felt like there wasn’t anything I could contribute. I don’t have kids that need dinner 5 minutes ago. I’m not even working full-time. I don’t eat organic, well, pretty much anything.

Then I realized: I can promote real food. For me, real food is peace. It’s love. It’s life. It’s intertwined with life. It’s part of a balance. It doesn’t define me, just like I’m not defined by any single aspect of my life. It’s a big part of my identity, sure, but it’s not everything.

So — real food. Tonight, I made an almond bundt cake.

Almond bundt cake

Almond bundt cake

It consists of almond flour, brown rice flour, baking soda, salt, olive oil, water, agave nectar and (pure) maple syrup. That’s it. That’s all. Just this week, I’ve made turkey piccata, twice-baked sweet potatoes, pad thai, a “south american” pork dish involving quinoa, coconut milk, turmeric, ginger, cloves, and a tomato-apricot chutney. (I’m missing a few ingredients because I’m listing them off the top of my head, but they’re all real ingredients, too.) Tonight was turkey chili with rice. Pumpkin cookies. Chocolate chip cookies. Ginger wheels (softer than snaps). A pear spice cake made with teff (and to DIE for. I would have made that tonight instead of the almond bundt cake, but I didn’t have any fresh, ripe pears).

For me, real food is worth it. I don’t spend the extra money on organic stuff (unless that’s the only way it comes, like some of the flours). I just make real food with real ingredients. I haven’t been to cooking school, and I’m definitely not a photographer. I just like to cook, and document what I cook, and work it into my life. Even though I never could have anticipated that we’d be living with my parents at this point in life, I LOVE cooking for all of us.

I am grateful for having been diagnosed with Celiac Disease. Yes. I AM GRATEFUL. Without the diagnosis, I never would have discovered quinoa. Or almond flour. Or coconut kefir. Or teff. Or how much FUN it is to make JAM! Or the best pumpkin cookies on earth that also happen to be gluten-free and vegan. Or that pancakes and waffles are not the only uses for maple syrup! Or agave nectar. Or tamari. YUM.

Are almond, teff, brown rice, sorghum, tapioca, garbanzo, rice, amaranth, etc. etc. etc. “weird” flours compared to just boring old flour? Yes. Are they nutritious? Most of them. :)  Are they healthy? Yes! Are they real? Absolutely. Run a Google search on teff flour. Run a Google search on quinoa. Try making a stir-fry, but instead of serving it with rice, serve it with quinoa. IT’S SO GOOD. Run a Google search on tamari. It has a darker, richer flavor than soy sauce, and I LOVE IT. Even if I could, I would never go back to regular ol’ soy sauce.

Thanks for reading, thanks for sticking with me, and if you need any help, please let me know! I’m only an e-mail away. I’m happy to help with shopping or cookbook recommendations or anything at all. cinderellaspear (at) gmail.com. If you’d like to join me on Facebook or Instagram, send me an e-mail. I’m not-so-inclined to add people I don’t know when anybody can read my blog.

Also, if there’s anything you’d like me to cover on the blog, let me know!

Thanks for reading,

Cristina

Gluten and Mormons (LDS) Part 1: Young Women Camp

This seems like as good a place to start as any, since LDS Young Women Camp (commonly called Girls’ Camp) is what spurred this series in the first place.

I feel like I should disclose something here: I don’t particularly care for Girls’ Camp. I haven’t liked camping since I was pretty small, and Girls’ Camp is no exception. In that rough first year of diagnosis, the silver lining that kept me going is that I would never have to go to Girls’ Camp again! Now that I have many other allergies on top of gluten, I would just decline going. I can’t imagine trying to deal with all of my food issues while camping. Other people, though, love camping, and love Girls’ Camp, and aren’t about to let a silly thing like Celiac keep them from going. More power to them, I say!

My friend Joy e-mailed me, asking about a girl who will be attending with her this year. For one of the meals, they’re planning to do a stir-fry, and Joy hasn’t had any luck finding a gluten-free teriyaki sauce.

My initial response was letting her know about the existence of San-J gluten-free tamari. I told her that I know of a very simple teriyaki sauce recipe (seriously awesome, by the way), and that she could make some in advance, and take it up to camp. I mentioned this to my mom, who vouched for Seal Sama brand gluten-free Teriyaki Sauce.

As I was thinking about it some more, I remembered that most of the cooking at Girls’ Camp was done in dutch ovens. Dutch ovens aren’t stuck in the dishwasher with soap. They’re cleaned with hot water and oil. After this, my brain just spun out into all the cross-contact dangers with camping.

What is gluten?

Gluten is a protein in wheat, barley and rye. It’s in flour, bread, pancakes, and any other baked good that uses flour. Gluten can be very, very sneaky. Do a Google search for “hidden sources of gluten,” and you will find lots of good information for how to make sure none of the products you take have it. Gluten is even used as a thickener in sauces and dressings, so really be careful there!

How do I know whether she’ll be able to eat what we’re planning?

Talk with the girl and her mom before even solidifying the menu, and run all the meals by them. They will have some helpful tips, and may even have some spare ingredients you can take with you.

I’ve heard about cross-contamination or cross-contact. What is it, and is it a big deal?

Yes. It’s a big deal. Cross-contamination (or -contact, they’re used interchangeably) is when something that touches gluten touches something else that is supposed to be gluten-free.

For example: If you wash a dish that had pie crust in it, and use that same cloth or sponge to wash out the pan for cooking for the gluten-free girl, it will be contaminated, and there will be traces of gluten left in that pan the next time you use it to cook for her, and she could get sick.

Another example: If you drain regular pasta in a colander, and use that same colander to drain the gluten-free pasta, the gluten-free pasta will have traces of gluten from the pasta that just went through it, will be contaminated, and the girl will get sick.

A third example: If you have pots of stuff cooking on the same stove, and one of them is gluten-free and the rest aren’t and you use the same spoon to stir all of them, the gluten-free pot will be contaminated and the girl will get sick.

The last example: If you use a knife and cutting board to slice some bread for everyone, and then use the same cutting board and a different knife to cut some fruit up for the girl, the crumbs left on the cutting board (or the knife, if you use the same knife), will contaminate the fruit with traces of gluten, and the girl will get sick.

What can I do to avoid some of these pitfalls?

For Leaders:

If you can, work with the girl and her family so that everyone feels as comfortable as possible. Clear the menu with them first, and give them a chance to weigh in. They may even have some ingredients you can take with you.

Offer to put the set of pans and utensils and you will need for this girl in the dishwasher, and ONLY use them for her. Have a sponge or washing rag that is ONLY for these dishes. The safest way to handle this may be that the same leader (and only that leader) cooks and does the dishes for this person, for the whole week, so people don’t get confused. (Make sure this person and the girl in question have a good relationship!) If your circumstances allow, have a completely separate cooking area.

If your dutch oven has ever contained gluten, don’t use it for gluten-free anything. It’s too risky.

If your stake or ward has a rule about people not bringing their own snacks, please allow this girl to be an exception. This will significantly reduce your stress and their stress. It’s a win-win situation.

Make sure ALL the adult and youth leaders are aware of the situation, so everyone can keep an eye out.

Other than that, the biggest thing I can think of is “don’t make a big deal out of it.” It’s new to you, and it may be a lot more effort than you’re used to, but it’s not going to be a big deal to her, and she’ll just want to fit in and feel as normal as possible.

For Girls (and their parents):

Talk with the leaders in charge, and the leaders over food. Talk to everyone, so they know what’s going on. You may feel self-conscious (I almost always do), but it’s really not worth getting glutened. Be proactive. People mean well, but that doesn’t mean they know what they’re doing.

If you’re not comfortable with going, don’t go! Who wants to spend a week in the wilderness glutened, away from your family and doctors? Not me.

Take snacks, even if it’s “against the rules.” Always (always, always) make sure you have something you know you can safely eat, just in case.

Thank your leaders if they’re willing to attempt working on this with you. They’re going to be nervous about making you sick, so make sure you give them your appreciation for their work.

Be willing to help with your meals and the clean up. They’ll appreciate the help, and then you can keep an eye on things to make sure they stay gluten-free.

Enjoy Girls’ Camp!

If you’ve been to Girls’ Camp gluten-free, I’d love to hear your stories!

Enjoy Life Chocolate — Part 2 of 2: Semi-Sweet Chocolate Mega Chunks

I consider myself to be very lucky in that I’m not allergic or intolerant to soy. Many people are, though, so chocolate is a problem. Go look on almost any package of chocolate you have nearby, and you’ll see the ingredient “soy lecithin.” Yes, even that small trace amount can negatively affect people who can’t tolerate soy.

That’s what I consider to be the GREAT news about Enjoy Life Semi-Sweet Chocolate Mega Chunks.* They’re soy-free! (I take for granted that they’re gluten-free and dairy-free, or else I wouldn’t be eating them. Anything else is gravy for me.)

I just had to bake them into chocolate chip cookies.

 

The cookies turned out really well, and I really like the mega chocolate chunks. They’re about twice as big as a regular chocolate chip.

I asked my dad (who, to my knowledge, doesn’t have any food issues) if he could taste a difference between these and the popular brand of semi-sweet chocolate chips he keeps in the freezer. He said he couldn’t, which I took to be a good thing.

Between my inability to eat gluten, dairy and corn, that cuts out the vast majority of processed and pre-packaged goods. When I see a product that only has three ingredients (Evaporated Cane Juice, Natural Chocolate Liquor (Non-Alcoholic), Non-Dairy Cocoa Butter), I’m thrilled. In my book, the fewer ingredients, the better.

The cookies (and just the chunks themselves!) disappeared so quickly that I’ve already made a second batch of cookies with them (and had to supplement with regular chocolate chips)! They’re delicious…in or out of cookies.

If you’re local to Utah County, you can find them at Good Earth. You can also find them at Enjoy Life Foods Where To Buy.

 

* In the interest of full disclosure, Enjoy Life contacted me and asked me to review these two products. They are not paying me, and I’m writing what I actually think.

 

Enjoy Life Chocolate — Part 1 of 2: Double Chocolate Crunch

Okay, people. I’m here to tell you about two Enjoy Life products. Part 1 is about Double Chocolate Crunch Granola.*

It’s really good. I mean, REALLY good. My father, who does not eat gluten-free, loves this stuff. My husband very carefully tested it (chocolate sets off his migraine), and thinks it’s very, very tasty.

I could eat this every day, but there’s one problem for me, and it’s specific to me: I have a condition called gastroparesis. Mine is a (thankfully) mild case, and it’s doing really well right now, but there’s one troublesome ingredient: ground flax. For most people with Celiac or gluten intolerance, ground flax is a wonderful ingredient to have because it’s an excellent source of fiber. For me and my gastroparesis, too much fiber can set it off and cause some unpleasantness for me.

The ground flax in the Double Chocolate Crunch gives me just enough discomfort that I probably won’t be buying much of it in the future. On the other hand, that’s a very good thing, because otherwise I’d be eating FAR too much of it, and going bankrupt in the process. It’s very frustrating to have my mouth saying “more, please!!” and my stomach saying “I don’t think so.”

Good stuff, and free of all the main eight allergens: wheat, dairy, peanuts, tree nuts, egg, soy, fish and shellfish.

It’s also certified gluten-free by Gluten Free Certification Organization (GFCO). According to their information packet they sent me, “all Enjoy Life products are tested down to 10 ppm to ensure they are gluten-free.”

Do yourself a favor, and go get some of this Double Chocolate Crunch. You won’t be sorry. To find out where you can buy it, go to: enjoylifefoods.com/where_to_buy

Next up in Part 2 of 2: Semi-Sweet Chocolate Mega Chunks

* In the interest of full disclosure, Enjoy Life contacted me and asked me to review these two products. They are not paying me, and I’m writing what I actually think.

Product Review: So Delicious Cultured Coconut Milk

I have discovered a product that I really like:

So Delicious Cultured Coconut Milk. I have missed yogurt since going dairy-free, which is funny, because I didn’t love it when I could eat it.

My stomach’s delicate enough, though, that I’ve been looking for a way to get more probiotics into my system to help it out as much as I can. (I do take Align, but wanted even more.)

I tried Silk soy yogurt, but it has a lot more sweetener than I would like. Individual yogurts are pretty expensive and take up a fair amount of room in the fridge, so I was looking for something…else, even if I didn’t know exactly what it was.

I tried the strawberry first, since I don’t love coconut milk. It’s very good! I’ve purchased several of them, and it really does help keep things moving. After getting strawberry a few times, I tried vanilla on a whim. Also very good, and unlike its strawberry counterpart, it isn’t too sweet for my husband. So today I got two — strawberry for me, vanilla for my husband. They have less sugar per serving than other brands and types of yogurt, and they don’t take up too much space in the fridge.

I buy them here in Utah at Good Earth Natural Foods, and they cost $4.65. For me, they’re completely worth it.

 

Caprese Pizza – my favorite

Once upon a time, my dad served an LDS mission to Spain. While he was there, he discovered several “new” ingredients — mostly fresh ones, like prosciutto ham and garlic, as two examples.

Then, many years later, he discovered two Italian importing companies/delis in Utah: Granato’s and Caputo’s. He discovered that you could get really good prosciutto ham, fresh mozzarella cheese, kalamata olives, balsamic vinegar and fresh baguettes there.

He would buy these ingredients, bring them home, acquire fresh basil and fresh Roma tomatoes, and we would have sandwiches! I have loved these all my life.

To make a long story short, my diagnoses of Celiac Disease and other food allergies (especially dairy) have made it so I can no longer order caprese salads and sandwiches. That hasn’t stopped me from trying to find an acceptable substitute, though.

Another thing I had to give up when I found out about my food allergies was the classic pizza. There are many companies that make a decent gluten-free pizza crust mix. There are even pizzerias that are starting to figure out how to serve gluten-free pizzas in their restaurants (despite them being VERY expensive, in most cases), but CHEESE as a main ingredient makes it moot.

I had one such mix floating around in my pantry from before my food allergy diagnoses.

I decided to use it instead of just watching it stare at me, mocking me for the gooey cheese that I can no longer eat without getting sick. It would not defeat me.

I’ve never cared much for marinara sauce, and usually substituted it with some kind of alfredo sauce. That doesn’t work anymore, so I decided to try pesto. Many restaurants put pesto on pizza. Why not me? (I used the pesto recipe in The Gluten-Free Vegan, but you can use any pesto recipe that you love.)

So far, so good. Then I added fresh Roma tomatoes…

…and baked it. For this crust, you add toppings before you bake, and it results in a very bread-y pizza. After the main baking was done, I added…

…fresh prosciutto ham (which I acquired at Costco). It’s a very, very delicate meat, so I only put it back in the oven for another 3-5 minutes.

Those who can eat dairy and wanted to, added a bit of fresh mozzarella cheese (also obtained at Costco).

That pizza is really, really, really, really good in and of itself, but if you want that extra touch, you add some of this liquid goodness: Balsamic vinegar.

When I drizzled it over the pizza, it sort of bounced off the prosciutto ham, went onto the plate, and soaked into the bottom of the crust, which was the perfect touch.

Success! Caprese is back in my life, minus the mozzarella. Though I really miss fresh mozzarella, it was heavenly even without it.

I had enough ingredients left over from making it the first time around that all I had to do was buy another crust (this time from the Namaste brand), and we had another caprese pizza. It was amazing.

We ended up liking the Namaste brand crust better, anyway.  It has some Italian seasoning in it, and it’s much less bread-y. It’s baked before any toppings are put on, so it’s more crunchy and resembles a “normal” pizza crust. The second time, we didn’t bake the prosciutto at all, and I liked it even more.

While the ingredients are definitely more expensive than regular pizza ingredients, even when purchased from Costco, the pizza was amazing, and worth every penny. My dad has purchased fresh basil plants, and I’m sure that when they get bigger, we’ll be having this pizza again. Can’t wait!

The Emotional Journey of Pain

It’s painful to be laid off under extremely challenging circumstances, and to know that the pay and insurance I’ve enjoyed the last 3 1/2 years is ending very soon.

It’s painful to keep applying and applying and applying, have interviews on a regular basis, but not have a new job yet.

It’s painful to have purchased a house a year ago (which is a stressful process in and of itself), only to be trying to sell it now since between the two of us, we just can’t keep it up.

It’s painful that the house hasn’t sold yet, with the aforementioned job ending.

It’s painful to know that my husband feels better in the Northwest, but that we don’t have jobs there yet (and, for that matter, an apartment).

With all of these, there are HUGE timing issues.

Yet, all this looks like nothing when I put it next to my cousin being diagnosed with a rare form of leukemia (in January) and my mom’s cousin (same side of the family) having just been diagnosed with ovarian cancer this week.

This combination of events has really pulled the carpet out from under me. I have questioned so many of the things I’ve learned and taken for granted over the years. I’ve had a tough time returning calls and e-mails, preferring instead to try to hide until it’s all over. People I care about who care a lot about me ask me questions I can’t answer.

I’ve been very fortunate in my choice of spouse. He’s been wonderful, supportive and sweet, and we’ve gotten to know each other a lot better. We both have great parents.

I have the chance to recreate myself, to start over, to re-evaluate my boundaries and values. It’s interesting, scary, saddening and exciting. That’s just for starters, and in the last 60 seconds.

I wish I could take my magic wand and heal the cancer patients. I wish I could tap my husband’s head with that magic wand and cure his headaches. I wish I could make the pain go away and settle my life and emotions.

Instead, I think and pray, think and pray, and think some more. I do sudoku. I read. (The Hunger Games, in Spanish, if you’re curious.) I think and pray some more. I start redefining who I am, what I value, and what my boundaries are. Sometimes I’m able to take several steps forward, and sometimes I slip several more back. I weigh pros and cons, and then I question the measure.

It’s hard, but I’m growing. I still can’t answer any questions, but I know there’s a plan, and I know the pieces will fall into place someday. Hopefully that day will be soon, but it’s not in my hands. Not really. I can apply for jobs and apply for jobs, but thinking and praying is about all I can do after that.

To those who care about us and have helped us, thank you. To all of you who read my blog, thank you. Your love, prayers and thoughts are felt and appreciated.

 

 

Migraines and Washington, or Why I’ve Been Missing in Action

I have been missing in the online world. Haven’t been blogging, and have been spending minimal time on Facebook and Twitter. A lot has been going on in my life, but now I have something that resembles a plan.

The Background:

In May of 2009, I was diagnosed with Celiac Disease. Over the July 4th weekend, we went up to Idaho to spend the holiday with my family. We came back that Sunday, and in the middle of the night, I got up to go to the bathroom. Just as I was almost back to sleep, my husband got up, too. I heard a loud, long, extended clatter in the kitchen of our small, one-bedroom apartment. Half-asleep, I called out, “Honey, are you ok??” No response. So I got up, went out to the kitchen to find my husband standing by the kitchen table, holding a mug of water, and wiping blood from his nose. I asked him if he was okay, and he responded that he thought he’d fallen down.

“You fell down?!”

“I think I’m just dehydrated. Some water should help.”

He took a step toward the kitchen sink and passed out again, hitting his head on the sink. (Have I mentioned he’s really tall?) He was only out for a few seconds, but didn’t remember anything between me calling out from the bedroom, and me hovering over him, asking, “Are you okay? Are you okay? Are you okay?” So…we called the paramedics. He went to the ER and did every test imaginable, but everything came back normal. Ever since then, though, he’s had a migraine. Not kidding. On a really good day, at the best part of the day, his pain is at a 3 (out of 10). Most of the time, it’s higher than that.

The Struggle:

We have tried SO many things, to little or no avail. We consider ourselves VERY lucky that he’s able to work full time, with a wonder drug called amitriptyline. We have paid lots of money in trying different medications, different combinations of medications, and many other things.

For Christmas 2010, we went out to his grandmother’s house, which is in the very northwest part of Washington State. We had a great time, but the most miraculous thing was how good he felt! It’s the best I’ve seen my husband feel in 2 1/2 years. We were at sea level, the sky was cloudy, it was warm, and the air was clean. I cried on the way back to SEATAC. I did NOT want to come home to the inversion gunk in the air and my husband feeling terrible again, but back we came.

In February 2011, we bought a house. We love our house. Unfortunately, though, my husband has been getting worse, making taking care of the house and the yard very difficult. Washington has always been on the back burner of my mind, with a big “what if??” What if we moved there? Would he feel better more of the time? Was that just a fluke, since it was Christmas and he wasn’t working and was around family?

We talked about it extensively over Christmas, and decided that when he went to his checkup with his neuro-ophthalmologist just after the holidays, we would ask her. (She’s one of the three neuro-ophthalmologists in the Intermountain West.) When we got to the appointment, she asked us before we could ask her!

I told her about Christmas, and she was very interested in that. She said that altitude can really strongly affect migraneurs sometimes, and that it would be worth trying it again to see if it was just a fluke, or if he could feel better being at sea level.

That was what we needed.

The Decisions:

1- We will try the experiment, because it’s worth it! His grandma is being so kind to let us come stay with her. Both of our families have been amazing and so understanding.

2- We are selling our house. We’re very sad about this, because we LOVE our house, we LOVE our neighbors, we LOVE our ward, we LOVE the area. It’s beautiful. Wonderful people. (Seriously — I mentioned at church that my husband wasn’t there because he’d made the “mistake” of shoveling the driveway. Since then, some neighborhood angel has been clearing our walks and driveway. THANK YOU, WHOEVER YOU ARE.)

3- If going to Washington works, we will move there. I am ready to move on with my life. If he doesn’t feel ALL the way better, that’s okay — as long as he feels a LOT better. We are both ready for him to be more functional than he is, even though we’re both grateful he can at least work full time.

4- If Washington doesn’t work and we end up staying here, we are still selling our house and buying a condo or renting an apartment that doesn’t require yardwork. Our realtor is amazing, and she will be taking care of some house things while we’re gone.

Life change is never easy, and this has been no exception. It’s been a lot of thinking, a lot of talking, and a lot of praying. I believe that God has been guiding us, and looking out for us. I’m incredibly grateful for everyone who loves us and supports us. I really can’t tell you how much it means to me. It’s a little overwhelming (in a good way).

Please pray for us and send good thoughts our way as we make these preparations and as we travel. It’s an exciting adventure, and I’m really looking forward to it.

Religion, community, food and food issues

This post has been floating in my brain for a while now. More than a week. I wasn’t sure how to write it.

When I group religion, community and food together, I’m not talking about the Sacrament or Communion or what-have-you, though I could write a post on those.

Here, I’m referring to gathering as a congregation for parties, or dinners or refreshments or what-have-you.

Having food at events seems to have two main (and related) purposes: Encouraging people to come, and helping them get to know each other, which strengthens the sense of community. Food seems to be a common denominator.

This is all well and good, but what about people like me, who have Celiac Disease and food allergies? I just understand, now, that I can’t have anything at a church function. I eat before I go, I bring food with me, or I don’t go at all. If I can’t eat the food, and the activity itself isn’t appealing, why should I (or others in similar situations) attend? What can church leaders do to help?

Church leaders of any denomination can be sensitive to the needs of the people in question. I understand that it’s a pain. I really, really do. If you could get those people to come, though, wouldn’t it be worth it? (Note: Please don’t use food as a guilt trip, and respect those who have these issues if they’re not comfortable.) If possible, involve the people with food issues in the preparation of the food. That way, they can feel safe, and the people in charge will feel less intimidated and less afraid of making someone sick. Call in advance and ask if there are pre-packaged foods that are easy to find.

I don’t talk about it much here, but I’m a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. My parents’ former home teacher (who is now a bishop of a singles ward) brought us some homemade cranberry salsa as a Christmas neighbor gift. He also brought a box of Wheat Thins for the gluten-eaters, and a box of the Blue Diamond Almond Nut-Thins for the Celiac folks so all could enjoy the salsa (after scooping it out on individual plates). It was so amazingly thoughtful, and we gluten-free-ers were touched.

A small act of thoughtfulness like that is sometimes all it takes.